Social networking can connect strangers across the world. As the evolution of communication continues, technology progresses and social networking grows. Social networks like Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook have grown to have billions of users. In fact in today’s society, it is necessary or nearly expected to use one if not all of these technological communication networks. The increasing use of social networking has had both a negative and positive effect on communication in relationships. The purpose of this literary analysis is to answer if social networks are helpful or harmful to relationships. As social networking evolves, different aspects of communication suffer. Such as the social penetration theory, which …show more content…
With the expedient process of getting to know someone, relationships can rise and fall much quicker. Aside from expediting relationships, there is the factor of getting to know someone for who they really are. In social networks, “the CliffsNotes of a person's life will never give you an accurate representation of the reality. We create the image that we want to convey through our activity on social media. It's much easier to convey the "reality" that we want to portray on the Internet than to live it in real life.” (Curry, 2013). People often put the best things about themselves on their social network; in fact many show the life they wish they had. This can be detrimental to relationships, because no one is ever transparent or honest. In considering relationships, “the truth is that the content and character of a person should be revealed in layers. The development of a fruitful relationship takes effort, and it is impossible to reach a level of depth with a person by meticulously parsing his Facebook self” (Curry, 2013). Real relationships and depth cannot be established when merely built online. Throughout the day college students, high school students, middle school students and increasing number of elementary school students are constantly found on cell phones, lap tops, ipod, and ipads. They constantly text, email, instant message, instagram, and facebook, looking for anyway to become
Conversation is a critical part of human life and social networking is an instant way to start and enjoy conversation. Living in the 21st century, technology is dominating the world each second of the day therefore social networking is an excellent way to communicate and it has altered the traditional way in which people converse and connects to one another.
Some people say that social media can break up relationships, but this is not always true it can also bring relationships together. It can help people get to know each other better, it can introduce new people that you have never met before, and it can boost your confidence about meeting somebody new. According to (Erik Qualman) in his video named Social media video 2013 he said, "One in three marriages started on social media last longer", Erik Qualman also said in the same video that, "One in five couples meet online". The internet does not destroy relationships, but instead creates new relationships. Although people say that social media destroys relationships, Erik Qualman proved that the internet does not just destroy relationships between people, but brings people together to and sometimes it is better because they last longer when they meet online instead of in person. These reasons show that the web can bring people together, and not just destroy relationships and separate
Many of our students have smartphones, laptops, and tablets they use throughout the school day for school work. While some students depend on their devices to look up the current fashion trends and football stats, we feel that technology has also enabled students to think in a different way. Many students are quick on their feet to Google information to prove their friend wrong, send texts and emails in less than 10 seconds, and get excited when they are allowed to use their
Dr. Rachna Jain, a social marketer, says in her article, 4 Ways Social Media is Changing Your Relationships, “people can become so seduced by the ease of connecting with others online that we begin to think that these relationships are more intense, more committed, and more complete than they really are.” Misallocating the priority of real-life relationships on to online ones causes people to hinder their opportunities to make actual relationships of substance. Another effect of being too invested in social media is that we compare ourselves to others too much. With all of the different platforms available on social media, we are able to see very much into other people’s lives, or rather the part of their lives that they want to share which may or may not be doctored. These fake impressions of having perfect lives and always being happy cause people to compare the things that they don’t have to the things that others do and the things that they do have to the things that others have better versions of. Also, knowing that people are watching us all of the time, there is pressure to uphold a specific persona so that we can be the type of person who people
Meeting and make friendships with more people: a lot of friendships have started from social media sites.
Ellison et al believed that Facebook is a ‘rich site’ for research into the quality of relationships due its ‘heavy usage patterns’ and the mechanics of how it is more about offline to online relationships due the nature of the creation of the site, for university students to communicate. Facebook in incredibly different from other CMC as many users actually know most their ‘friends’ in real terms on the site.
This is an article which talks about how the social networking system, although looks really great is in the same way has a negative effect in the society. False sense of communication is one of the many problems social networking faces. Social media sites such as; Facebook, Twitter and others make it really problematic to differentiate among
So it seems quite possible to at least begin a meaningful relationship over the internet, but it seems that it's not beneficial to rely on online-only relationships too heavily. In studies, it has been shown that
Social networking sites have become a big part of our lives. These sites are indeed twofold, and their impact on society is both positive and negative. My essay will, therefore try to answer both sides of the impact social networking sites have in today’s culture.
Further, the author depicts that it is very quick to find relationships in social media, but are mostly the uncultivated and unreal ones. Users do not realize that they do not give themselves enough time to know the people they call their “friends” online. As a result, they could not act genuinely because of the fear of not being able to share the same thoughts and interests. This shows that no understanding is involved especially if they are practically strangers who call each other “friends”. Lastly, he contends the sad idea that social media has changed the definition of real friendship as people choose to open up to strangers rather than to someone they are close
Welcome to the digital age. Today’s society is constantly logged onto social media sites such as Facebook, twitter or Instagram. It is often over looked how much influence those sites have. They are used regularly throughout people lives, it has practically become part of their routine. Social media keeps people in contact and updated on their relations with family members and other people in their lives. With this contact, many forms of relationships are developed. Social media can affect relationships with friends, family as well as the relationships people have with
Social media such as Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, Instagram, and Flicker was invented to keep us in touch and keep us closer to our family and friends. But according to How Facebook ruins Friendships “we took our friendship online” (Bernstein). First we began communicating more by email than by phone and then switched to instant messaging or texting. By joining social Medias online
For the past decade social networking websites’ popularity has increased rapidly, websites like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram became widely popular. (Pantic, 2014). According to Greietmeyer, Mugge & Bollerman (2014) Studies showed that more than 75% of internet users participate in some kind of social networking website. The main goal of these websites is to grow social relationships, however a study showed that 88% of the participants surveyed reported that social networking sites is also used to keep and strengthen current relationships.
Technology has grown tremendously over the last years. This growth has brought with it different ways that individuals can use to communicate and keep in touch with each other. Social networking is one technology that has allowed people to share, keep in touch, and communicate. Social networking has also had an effect on business, society, and politics. It has been adapted and embraced quite quickly, which has brought numerous changes to the world. Unfortunately, not all these changes are for the better. There is little research regarding the effects that social networking is having on human relationships. People have been denied the opportunity to have meaningful social interactions with each other. Social networking has removed the need for physical interaction between people ADDIN EN.CITE Phillipson2004276(Phillipson, Allan and Morgan)2762766Phillipson, C.Allan, G.A.Morgan, D.H.J.Social Networks and Social Exclusion: Sociological and Policy Perspectives2004110 Cherry StreetAshgate9780754634294http://books.google.co.ke/books?id=hBaxP_FnB8wC( HYPERLINK l "_ENREF_3" o "Phillipson, 2004 #276" Phillipson, Allan and Morgan). People are now communicating more on social networks that they do in person. There is also the potential of people pretending whom they are on social networks. This would make them seem popular and interactive, though this is not the case in real life. It is clear that social networking has contributed
Communicating in today’s society has become a lot easier with these social networking sites allowing us to communicate with people with a simple click of the mouse. This essay is going to prove that social networking sites are evolving and that communicating online is making it easier for people to communicate, easier for people to invite others to social events and allow people to have romantic relations online.