Being held to such high expectations by one's family can put a lot of pressure on an individual. For several years, both my parents and grandparents have worked immensely, to get their future children in the place that I am now: in a place with satisfactory education and opportunities. I hope that in the future with these opportunities, I will be able to be the first to go to college, and build my own career. My Mexican cultural background is very special to me, in the way that causes me to see things in a different perspective than others. It also empowers me because with it, comes many stereotypes and proving them wrong is something I am determined to do. I am still at a young age where I am still trying to figure my future out, and in order to do this, I must be able to figure out my identity and purpose. I am nothing but grateful that my family has been able to give me the opportunities and unique culture, because with this, I will be able to break many barriers within my family. The biggest part of my identity is made of my family’s influence. I am certain that we have a strong bond, and this is because they improve who I am as a person. Ever since I could remember, my parents have been telling us to get our education. “It should be your only priority, you have nothing else to worry about”. Over time I started to understand the meaning of this; they have taught me to get my priorities straight. However, the most interesting peice to my family is my younger sister.
Currently, I am in the process of not only becoming comfortable in my identity, a black queer woman, but, also attempting to find solace in my identity as well. Something that all women, especially black queer women, should achieve in their lifetime. It is that dream that inspires me to travel to experience other cultures and to unite with women from various cultures across the black diaspora. Throughout many cultures, women’s identities are defined by their male counterparts and the labor they provide to them. Therefore, a major goal of mine is to create a space where women are able to exist outside the scope of their relationships with men and live uninhibitedly to become their best selves. That is why I find it pertinent to travel not only
Coming from a Mexican immigrant family I have learned to recognize since a very young age that because of the status that my parents are placed in they cannot pursue a better future like the one I want. I have been given the opportunity to challenge myself with obtaining a higher education than just high school itself. My parents have demonstrated to me through their hard work that I have to value this opportunity unless I want to end up with low paying job. My life long dedication comes from seeing my parents make sacrifices in order for my education to continue.
Every year I look back on the previous and I see how much I have changed. I see the friends I have gained and lost. The heartbreak and the happiness. Despite how rough times have gotten, it has truly made me stronger. Everything has shaped who I am today, it has shaped my identity. Identity is a complex topic because it consists of changeable and unchangeable traits and outside internal influences; my own identity has been shaped by going from private to public school, young life camp, and my current friends.
My Hispanic heritage shaped my life because I of what my family has overcome. My grandparents from both of my parent’s sides of the family picked cotton and vegetables in the fields to help their families. I have learned from my parents and grandparents stories that it is worth working hard in school to obtain a good job in the future. Both of my parents went to college and they have been a great inspiration to me. Not all of my aunts and uncles have had good jobs. Some of them only graduated from high school. For example, my Uncle Romeo become a construction worker after he graduated from high school. It is difficult for him to buy his kids what they want and need, and even provide for himself. Although he is a diligent individual, he wishes that he could have been able to attend college and have a different career. He has used
Lately my mornings are spent getting up between 5:30am and 6am. I get myself ready, I never look fantastic just passable, and I go to work. Part of my morning routine is getting my dog, Donovan, ready for the early part of his day as well. We go to the yard for his bathroom routine, we go inside where I feed him his diet dog food and inject him with insulin, we go upstairs where I place a new diaper wrap around his mid-section (dogs with diabetes leak, who knew?), and he goes back to bed to sleep beside my husband. After we say our goodbyes I head to work, or school, or whatever adventure life has for me that particular day. Rinse, wash, repeat. I had no idea when I was in my teenage years that my life at 32 years old would be a tattooed, married, full time working, full time schooling, boring, Puerto Rican, animal lover. Well, the animal loving part I knew since I was maybe 2.
My social identity plays a huge part in shaping and defining my role as a leader. The way I view myself combined with the way that others view me frames the narrative of my opportunities to be a leader in many ways. Of my various social identity characteristics, the two that play the largest part in my life are my gender and appearance as a woman and my economic standing as lower middle class.
Personal identity is essential in the human experience. Identity is complex and can be broken down into two main groups: introspective identity, and bodily identity. Introspective identity is based off of the groups, mentalities, or beliefs that you align yourself with, and bodily identity is based off of the physical side of yourself. Whether physical or introspective, your identity impacts every action you take. Whether choices ranging from what colors you prefer to which college you want to attend are primarily based off of your introspective identity, which is a combination of both memory and consciousness, physical identity impacts how others perceive you. Consciousness is mainly the awareness of bodily identity as well as continuous introspective identify, while memory is awareness of introspective identity. These two different facets of identity are imperative in the distinction between bodily identity and introspective identity. In means of personal identity introspective identity (which is evident in memory), is essential, while bodily identity (based partially in consciousness) has less credit.
My parents weren’t born in the U.S they were from Mexico working hard in a factory for any needs. As time passed they had to illegally pass to the U.S to give birth to my older sister, my younger sister, and I. I knew they had come to the U.S for a better living and for us to have a better future in education. Education was difficult to proceed in Mexico with all the violence and disappearance of children nearby school entrances. School wasn’t easy for me as I thought it would be, but I fought through blood, sweat, and tears gradually. My family was always there for me pushing me to greater standards and even when I’d back down in tears their words where the motivation to continue the work and that everything is accomplishable if you put determination
I am truly proud of my background and how it has formed my identity. My background consists of me being Portuguese. I could not be any more thankful for how greatly my background has impacted my life into what it is now. It has helped me gain many friends that I am still very close to and gain interests that have started since I was a child. Simply experiencing my family’s numerous customs and traditions is why I love to express that I am Portuguese. It has given me the opportunity to visit Portugal every year during each summer where I fall in love with the country each time. Being Portuguese has taught me many lessons throughout life that I will continue to pass on for future generations of my family.
¨Pereme-what? That is the weirdest and longest last name i've ever heard of! Where do people get last names like that?¨ My answer? Well, my grandfather is from Siberia, but my family just consider ourselves Russian. Actually not long ago my dad had told me about a city in Russia called Peremyshl, my great great grandparents, as I was told, are from there, Peremyshl is in the Kaluga Oblast near Moscow. And because of my ethnic background, I go to my church's youth, our youth really likes to go and hang out at the park or go someplace else and play volleyball.
I care for my younger siblings, often driving them to lessons, and help my parents with the chores. My dedication to these commitments reflects my love and admiration for my family members. Since I am the eldest child, I have the opportunity to see my two younger siblings grow and develop. I watch my 10-year-old sister surmount new spelling words and learn algebra. I watch her become smarter and cleverer at a faster pace than me. I watch my 14-year-old brother learn the ropes of high school and practice the piano for hours until he is able to perfect his music. My younger siblings teach me that there is no limit to passion. My parents teach me valuable lessons too. My parents are physicians and have worked hard to reach where they are now. As well-educated as they are, they have not stopped learning and push themselves into challenging environments. My family motivates me to pursue my dreams and always keep
A sense of self is a general conscious awareness of your own identity. I have come to understand the term as it is what defines me and makes me one of a kind. It could be a certain look, attitude or personality trait. It could also be the way I view a certain person, thing or subject. My sense of self could even be my purpose in life, perhaps? If it is, then I would say that my sense of self is something that has changed over time and will continue to develop as I get older and my life is influenced by events, places and people. Developing my sense of self is key to living a satisfying and healthy life.
I’m eighteen years old. I’m the child of two highly educated, bright academics. I have several siblings in grad school at ivy league colleges. I love them, but I hate them, too, because I want to be like them and I don’t know if I can. There 's nothing really wrong with me, but I wish there was, so I had something to blame.
Throughout my life so, my family, has been the main factor in shaping my character. As a daughter to my parents, a younger sister to my brother, and an older sister to my sister, I have numerous roles to fulfill. Each of these relationships requires special attention and responsibilities.
On my identity collage the things that I put are the ones that are very important to me and the ones that I embrace in my life . Some of the things that are most important on my collage is my culture , religion , family and a little bit of my future . So let’s start off talking about my culture , my culture is deprived of two parts Indian and Fijian . Our culture has a lot do with dignity and respect for ourselves in the world , we are taught moral values that we are supposed to follow through our whole lives . Also the values that we are taught in our culture we are also encouraged to let others know as well as instill these values into our kids for their better future . Some of the values that we are taught is to not eat beef or pork as beef comes from cows and Hindus worship cows as mothers and pork is not to be eaten as it is considered an unhealthy meat and against one of the Hindu gods . So I have learned these values from my culture and this is what we are taught .