Love is the Downfall of Life Throughout the novel, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Oscar falls in love with several girls throughout his life whom never love him back. This is partially due to Oscar’s love for women that are extremely out of his league. These women are beautiful and desire the stereotypical man which is the opposite of overweight, nerdy Oscar. Several songs display the scenes throughout Oscar’s life in which he falls head over heels for women that would never publicly date him. When Oscar is eighteen years old he meets an important girl named Ana in an SAT prep class. He immediately falls in love, but unfortunately also falls “into one of those Let’s-Be-Friends Vortexes” (Díaz 41). While Oscar is just one of her …show more content…
His comfort is never enough because she always goes back and forgives Manny after the fight is over. The chorus of “Look for the girl with the broken smile / Ask her if she wants to stay awhile / And she will be loved” plays when Ana comes to Oscar’s house with a bruised face and ripped blouse (Díaz 44). The chorus parallels with Oscar’s emotions towards the Ana that Manny has emotionally and physically broken. He loves and comforts her even if he never gets anything more out of their relationship than just being friends. In college Oscar lives with the narrator of the novel, Yunior. Yunior describes the obsession Oscar has over a Puerto Rican goth girl that was out of his league. Her name was Jenni Muñoz and she lived in the same building as him. Oscar thought he was in love with her after the first time they had ever talked. This is a prime example of how easily Oscar falls in love with girls out of his league. He can have one conversation with a girl and think they are meant to be together. Yunior watches Oscar and Jenni get close and hangout with each other until the day when he comes home to Oscar crying in his bed. Yunior tried to see what had happened, but Oscar got angry and wanted to be left alone. This heartbreak was one of the worst Yunior had seen Oscar have: “Figured it would be like always. A week of mooning and then back to the writing. The thing that carried him. But it wasn’t like always”(Díaz 186). Usually when Oscar was rejected by
The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao is not a happy book. The Author, Junot Diaz, does a great job fooling the reader into believing the story is about the De Leon family, specifically Oscar who is an over weight nerd trying to find the love of his life, but due to a family “fuku” or curse Oscar is having a lot of trouble doing so. Instead, the story actually portrays the dark history of the Dominican Republic under the dictatorship of Rafael Trujillo. Upon reading the stories of Oscar’s relatives the reader feels a powerful message of fear and oppression due to the actions of the Trujillo regime. Even after the demise of
In the play the men are made out as bad guys and Ana is waiting to hear from NYU through financial aid. More so in the movie it is Ana’s mom who does not want her to go away to college and make a better life for her only because she want’s Ana to grow up how she grew up. Ana strives to be an independent woman who wants to find love. But her mom just wants her to find a husband to take care of her.
Diaz strategically uses Yunior to narrate a majority of the novel. Though Yunior’s identity as the narrrater was not revealed till almost the very end of the novel, Yunior gave a very descriptive and satirical version of the life of Oscar Wao. Yunior was Oscar’s roommate at Rutgers, the boyfriend of Oscar’s sister, Lola, and the reader
Oscar is the antithesis of his culture’s idea of manliness. In the beginning we meet an Oscar who is called “Porfirio Rubirosa” (21). Everyone is proud of the boy because this is exactly what he needs to be to be a Dominican man. Men from Dominican Republic, and perhaps Spanish Caribbean men, are expected to take care of their family especially their mothers and sisters, yet they are also expected to be “playboys” who have multiple women. as the first line of the story communicates, “Our hero was not one of those Dominican cats everybody’s always going on about—he wasn’t no home-run hitter or a fly-bachetero, not a playboy with a million hots on his jock” (21). Oscar is the type of man who women say they want; kind, sensitive, considerate, smart, and romantic. He truly want to find true
When we see that the people that we love have to deal with a horrible situation we try to make it better anyway we can, sometimes giving up the most important part of ourselves. In The Brief Life of Oscar Wao, Diaz argues that there are stronger forces around us. With fuku, the curse in the Dominican Republic, is present in the lives of Oscar and Beli when they both have an encounter with the
The brief Wondrous life of Oscar Wao, is novel the show the terrible violence in the Dominican republic influence by the power of the dictator, Rafael Leonidas Trujillo Molina. Dias describe Oscar, the main character in the novel as a ghetto nerd, Oscar is a Dominican American kid who doesn’t fit into the macho culture that surround him. The novel begin describing the curse, called fukú americanus, brought over to the islands of Antilles when the Europeans came, and has stayed ever since. The narrator makes the claim that the late dictator, Rafael Leonidas Trujillo Molina, has a close connection with fukú and Oscar de Leon the main character was a victim of her family fuku.
Trouble began to brew because of the woman, and it seemed logical to any normal person to discontinue the pursuit; but Oscar’s stubbornness that was frequently depicted in situations throughout the novel led him to his death. In this novel there was no other way for Oscar to die logically; he needed a big bang to bow out of his eccentric life and what better way for him, than to die for love. True love, what Oscar had been searching for his entire life and finally found, had killed him.
The Election and The Brief Wondrous life of Oscar Wao both had typical high school love drama both involving where the girl could not continue the relationship. With The Election one of the teacher’s had an affair with a student. The teacher fell in love with the student, but was very childish about it. Eventually, the student came to realize that this morally wrong and tried to stay away from him as much as possible. The relationship terminally ended when the mother of the student found out from a note the teacher had written on her test. In the Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Oscar fell in love with Ana and tried his best to be there for her. However, what was preventing that relationship was his nerdy personality and that she was still in love with her ex-boyfriend Manny. Even after he changed his looks and confessed his love for her she still was not interested in him. The teacher and Oscar were going after girls who they knew weren’t a good suit for them. Even with the warning signs and
While at Rutgers, Oscar thought he had something going with a girl named Jenni Muñuz. They became pretty good friends, getting into deep conversations and telling each other secrets. Oscar only imagined the relationship developing into Jenni becoming his girlfriend. The Fuku had to be getting the best of Oscar at this point, as Jenni found another guy that she made her boyfriend. Again, Oscar was more than crushed. His heart had cracked into a million pieces, glued back together and the shattered again. Oscar was in such bad shape after Jenni found a boyfriend that he decided to commit suicide. Luckily for Oscar, he survived his jump from the bridge as he landed safely on the median. Oscar makes it through college and finds a nice job teaching at his old high school in New Jersey. It is not until a much needed trip to the Dominican Republic where his attitude starts to change.
Although passion and love have a strong influence on Oscar's personality, he is not able to get a girl and this deepens his depression and weight problem. He is the exact opposite of the macho standardized figure.
Everything begins when Oscar at the age of seven his mother finds him crying for a girl and his mother tells him to be respected by women, before this event Oscar was seen in the community as a small playboy Dominican Rubirosa, he has a relationship with two girls at the same time for a week, a week before the girls ask him to have to choose which of the two is going to stay and then the two left him.it can be said that from that moment everything began.
In popular culture and mainstream media, women are often portrayed as overtly sexual objects that are obligated to entertain the idea of patriarchy. The strong outward appearances and characteristics of women in The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz are deceiving, as they do not reveal their powerlessness against men. Throughout the entire book, women are described and seen as sexual objects through the eyes of Yunior, Oscar, and various other men. In the first chapter, Oscar and his peers treat women like they are disposable, despite their desire and need for them. This negative trend is reinforced in the next two chapters, as the narrators shamelessly describe women by emphasizing their feminine traits whilst simultaneously displaying the idea of male dominance. In addition, strong-willed women like Beli and Lola refuse to succumb to such lustful treatment, but when they are tempted with the fantasy of true love, they immediately lose their strength and surrender. In the last few chapters, these ideas are further reinforced through the sexual desire that Oscar possesses. He meets Ybon, a prostitute with a boyfriend, and immediately falls in love. Ybon is committed to her boyfriend, but because of the way she is seen in a patriarchal system, she gives in to the forbidden love that Oscar offers. No matter how strong these women were within the story, they always let the men have their way. In the end, Oscar dies because of his uncontrollable desire for love. The
The decision to go against conformity is the only way to escape the situation that one is in, as shown in Díaz’s novel and Malala’s journey. Oscar, the main protagonist of Díaz’s novel, is frequently told by the people around him who he is and who he must be, sparking a deep conflict within Oscar. “Our hero was not one of those Dominican cat’s everybody’s always going on about ... dude never had much luck with the females (how very un-Dominican of him)” (Díaz, 11). From the beginning of the book, Oscar is pinned as an unfavorable choice for women. He notices this when girls reject him for the way he looks and his family members critique his lack of “improvement”. The Dominican expectation tells men they should be charming and a lothario however Oscar is neither. Oscar has the decision to conform to or reject the expectations. As it is more difficult to push the expectations away, Oscar spends his life chasing women in hopes of sex, which is also
Elliott was always captured by the idea of love. He longed to feel a connection with somebody so deep he would not dare think of another woman. He fantasized about marrying a beautiful maiden and living happily ever after, but he knew that was just a fairy tale. Elliott knew he was a handsome man, he had nice brown hair that he would slick back, he was tall and built, had blue eyes, and soft, glowing tan skin. It wasn’t looks that kept him from believing he would live his happy ending, however, it was his social status. Elliott used to live with his middle class family in a standard home in the center of town until tragedy struck. While he was at school a house fire had started in his home killing both his parents and his older brother. Elliott
Oscar is apparently inverse on the manliness range of Yunior's machismo. However, while he is weakened from multiple points of view all through the novel, it is critical that he is as yet a man and not female. This result depends on that in Dominican and other Latin American societies ladies are of a lower social remaining than men, regardless of how non-manly the man are. Through the Dominican generalizations that permits "machismo" men to corrupt ladies, essentially to demonstrate their manliness, many sorts of mishandle happen without much repercussion. Examples of the some sorts