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Examples Of Loneliness In The Great Gatsby

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As social beings, most of us feel the need to interact and enjoy the company of others. A popular definition of loneliness is that it's that feeling we get when this interaction is missing. However, loneliness is not the same as being alone or isolated. One can choose to be alone and enjoy a very blissful life. Or one can be very active in community groups, friends, and even family and still feel lonely. Loneliness is not an outward appearance, its an internal battle that causes weakness, and spiritual isolation within a person. Contrary to popular belief, loneliness is not something that is detected through the outside appearance. Most people who are feeling lonely are involved in outward interactions; it is when that person is internally analyzing their life that they find that they are lonely. While reading “The Great Gatsby” my senior year, there was a phrase Nick used that always stuck with me. It's a phrase that captures the concept of loneliness perfectly. It simply says, “The loneliest moment in someone’s life …show more content…

She rephrases the term “internal battle” by titling it a “perception” she says, “it is the perception of being alone and isolated that matters most.” An great example of this is found in my own personal life. When I first started high school, I felt very much so lonely. I was a home-schooler who was thrown into a new environment of lots of people, and I felt out of place and separated. Although I was consistently surrounded by other students, internally I perceived myself as isolated and this caused me to feel lonely. Like psychologist Cherry stated, it was my internal perception, the battle I had inside that made me feel not apart. Like many who deal with the feeling of loneliness, it caused me to feel very insecure and cautions. These insecurities and cautions caused me to be very weak

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