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Spanking Children Research Paper

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Spanking is not evil, nor illegal, but parents need to be wise about how and why they are spanking their children. This past year, I learned that punishing a child must be done with the mindset of improving the child’s behavior, not out frustration because the child is not behaving correctly. Punishing a child too severely can lead to negative effects for the child rather than an improvement on their behavior.
My nephew, Giovannie, has a mental disability. Naturally, he is not capable of completing tasks that a healthy seven year old boy can. Most notably would be his lack of using the “porcelain throne.” But regardless, Gio is the sweetest little boy you will ever meet. Whenever he came over he would greet me the same way; running in a full sprint, arms out, with a huge smile from ear to ear showing his missing front teeth. “DEENEEEE,” he would shout once he caught one glimpse of me. But two years ago, on a cloudy spring afternoon, Giovannie showed me a side of him that almost brought me to tears.
My sister, Dairys, Gio’s mother, had come home with Gio. He was sound asleep on …show more content…

What Giovannie understood from receiving a harsh spanking to the bottom was scaredness. He did not learn why not to pee in his pants or where he should have gone to use the bathroom. He also did not receive any positive incentives to motivate positive behavior. Continuously repeating no to a child will make a child angry because they do not know what they should be doing, they just know what they should not be doing. When his mother mentioned that he had to go back to his father’s house the next day Gio ran over to his mother gripping her leg, begging her not to take him. In a muffled, whining, high pitched voice Gio repeated, “NO NO NO!” Gio was the type of kid that ran to his father when he saw him and begged to go to his house whenever he was bored. Not only did Gio’s attitude make a complete change, but he also continued to pee on himself for weeks to

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