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t appropriate to spank a child? One thing that really bothers me to this day is children who miss behave and don’t act appropriately in a public setting. Maybe it was because I grew up with a father and mother that were good at disciplining and teaching me right and wrong that it just bothers me too much to see a child get out of hand and have nothing done about it. One good quality about my parents when I was younger is that they spent time and focused on being my parents, rather than trying to be my best friend. I didn’t receive what I always wanted and grew to accept that. It made me appreciate things more throughout my life. I mean I may have grown up believing that I had the worst parents in the entire existence of mankind, but when I …show more content…

Many reasons why people are fearful of the spanking technique are because they believe it to be “ineffective” and dangerous. Some believe that it is only going to produce fear itself into the child’s eye, and only make the child fear his parents rather than understand that there is a reason behind the spanking. Because of this act of “harm” some would say, it is only going to produce a negative effect inside the child’s brain and he will use this new found knowledge on other children. This spanking, explained by experts, will only negatively impact children rather than producing a better outcome, and will make the child produce a violent behavior of their own later on in life. While on the other side of the argument, people believe that it if spanking is properly used and understood by the child, it will be the most effective to repent undesirable behavior in younger children (not of infants). It’s believed that if you take away privileges from the child, it will only increase their temperament and make them behave even more inappropriate than before. When children become older then spanking from the parents or family should become less frequent because the child will understand that there will be consequences for their own actions taken place. But the spanking shouldn’t be used to actually cause physical harm, because this would be come to known as actual child abuse, rather than actual method to better increase the actions of the child. All and all I believe that spanking is a proper technique in disciplining children. Although it’s a good to do so it also has to be used in an appropriate matter, otherwise it could just turn into child abuse. But I believe earth itself is becoming too soft, and soon one day everything will be dangerous. If it were possible, would you want to live

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